What Makes An Entrepreneur Tick?
It is only natural that when
you start a business, you are doing something different than most
people. They not only will look at you because you stick out like a
sore thumb _ but human nature will cause people to naturally ridicule
what you are doing. They will tell you all types of things like:
"You're not business material." "You can't make a living working for
yourself." "You'll fail because nobody can ever make any money that
way."
Entrepreneurship is not just about having a lot of ideas or business
sense. It is also about having a lot of guts. You have to build
self-confidence in yourself. You have to only be concerned with
pleasing yourself and your Creator (God) _ not mankind. Then, when
(and if) you should fail with this particular venture, you'll just
dust yourself off and start again. It doesn't matter if people "think"
you're nuts! They aren't paying your rent and running your life. Don't
be concerned with what people "think" you should be. Just please
yourself and do what you feel is right. People are too busy competing
with society and "keeping up with the Jones's" that they do things
they are not comfortable with just to appease them and look "normal"
(whatever that is.)
And if you have to start out small in building your self-confidence. I
used to be so self-conscious that I would never eat at a restaurant
alone because I thought people would believe I was lonely and had no
friends. Unbelievable, but true. But, everyday I worked on walking
into a restaurant, taking a magazine to read and eating alone. I would
glance around, and to my amazement, no one ever looked at me. No one
cared that I was eating alone. Then _ it dawned on me; "Who cares what
these people think? I'll never see them again." Besides, there were a
lot of other people eating alone also and I could absorb myself in the
magazine I had took to read. Now, I can eat in restaurants and not
give any thought to the people around me.
But back to business _ when most people do fail in business they try
to "save face" by telling everyone they are "just in a slump" and
everything will be back to normal soon. Besides, they don't want
people to say: "I told you so" and destroy any pride they are still
hanging onto. Unfortunately, this only delays the problem and creates
even more false hope for the people in your life as well as yourself.
The best thing to do for anybody in this catastrophe is to swallow
their pride and admit they screwed up. Just face it head on! Admit
that you were so proud of your accomplishments that your mind became
diluted with "visions of sugar plums and fantasyland."
If your small business is beyond repair, go out and find a job and
begin working on your next small business in the near future. Keep
your family fed and your financial obligations met but look forward to
the day when you WILL succeed with your new business venture.
And why should you try again? Simply because you won't make the same
mistakes you made this time. If you built something successful before
(but failed), you are certain to build the next business stronger and
wiser. Even if you fail the second time, it won't be because of
mistakes you made the first time. You'll learn more and more _ and
eventually be successful. It's inevitable!
With Internet's help, you can get a lot of ideas by searching from
google.com and overture.com, yahoo.com. In today's information world,
you are in a much better position to be successful if you really want
to succeed.
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